It is estimated that upwards of
95% of divorces in the US are "uncontested," because
the two parties are able to come to an agreement (either
with or without lawyers/mediators/collaborative counsel)
about the property, children and support issues. When
the parties can agree and present the court with a fair
and equitable agreement, approval of the divorce is
almost guaranteed. If the two parties cannot come to
an agreement, they may ask the court to decide how to
split property, deal with the custody of their children.
A
divorce is the most common way of terminating or breaking
the marriage contract. Some states call divorce, the
“dissolution of marriage.” In a divorce,
a court declares the marriage contract broken, divides
the couple’s property and debts, decides who is
to receive alimony, and finds out the custody, support
and visiting obligations with respect to any children
the couple may have. In the past, a divorce could only
be granted under very specific circumstances, such as
adultery or mental cruelty. Nowadays, however, many
states allow a divorce simply because one or both of
the parties want one. This is referred to as a no-fault
divorce. Typically, the complaint or petition only needs
to mention that the marriage is “irretrievably
broken” or “irreparably broken.”
Divorce
Law:
The
basic divorce law in most states is simple and straightforward.
The
following criteria need to be shown in order to get
a divorce:
1) Your marriage is broken. You merely need
to state this fact.
2) You need to show how your property is to be divided.
3) You need to decide custody and support of your children.
4) Who is to receive alimony? How much, and for how
long?
The divorce process itself requires three basic
steps:
1) You need to file a petition with the court
clerk.
2) You need to notify your spouse.
3) You need to go to the hearing and present the information
required.
What
is an "Uncontested" divorce?
An
uncontested divorce is one in which the parties negotiate
their own settlement rather than going to trial and
letting a judge decide the issues for them. Many people
find that an uncontested divorce will benefit them for
several reasons. The process seems to be faster and
less expensive. The parties maintain control over their
future by reaching their own decisions. The Court does
not impose a judgment on them after a trial. The parties
are also better able to maintain (or establish) a civil
relationship if they are not involved in protracted
litigation with all of the positioning and leverage
that a trial may invoke. The reduced hostility makes
it easier for divorced parents to raise children together.
Do
I need a lawyer?
You
do not need to have a lawyer, but it is a good idea
to retain one if you and your spouse do not agree on
the terms defined in your Petition For Divorce or if
your spouse has a lawyer. If you are afraid for your
safety or your children's safety, or if you want help
with your divorce even if you started the divorce
without a lawyer.
What
does "grounds for divorce" mean?
Grounds
for divorce is the term used to describe the reason(s)
you are seeking a divorce. You can ask the court to
grant you a divorce based on adultery, cruelty, abandonment,
your spouse has been convicted of a felony offense and
has been incarcerated. You have been living apart, or
your spouse has been committed to a mental institution
with little or no hope of recovery. These reasons are
not all inclusive. If you are uncertain as to what grounds
for divorce you wish to claim then you will want to
consult with a licensed attorney or your local legal
aid office.
What
if I do not know where my spouse is living or how to
contact them?
You
do not need to know where your spouse is in order to
get divorced. However you will need to complete a few
special forms which will prove to the court that you
have done everything within reason to try and locate
your spouse. These special forms and instructions on
how to fill out these forms can be found in our library.
What
happens with my health or life insurance benefits?
Your
spouse may not be required to provide health
or life
insurance coverage for you or your children. This would
be determined by the court. If you are concerned about
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